ANTHONY M.S. COLUCCI
|In his memory on his 22nd birthday. The church in
|New Lebanon. Love Jamie & Mimi.
Tony's quote from his
"MANY PEOPLE COME AND GO OUT OF UR LIFE
SO KEEP THE ONES YOU KNOW CLOSE AT HEART CUZ U NEVER KNOW WHEN THERE GONNA BE BACK"
|Cannon Beach, Oregon
Your the one I Think About each day and night.
I wish I could hold you in
my arms so tight.
I know we will be together someday but it just seems so far away.
Right now we just have to wait and
see and someday we will be.
Anthony Michael Colucci
Copyright ©2005 Anthony Colucci
In loving memory of my friend
TONY M. COLUCCI.
I wish I had the answers to all the questions that arise,
understand the circumstance that caused us this good-bye,
I wish I had the power to make us understand,
why we lost
you prematurely at the cause of someone's hand,
I wish I'd only told you how I treasure time we spent,
and how part
of me will always hold a place for that regret,
I wish them joyous memories for every tear your family cries,
loving and remembering you in time their pain subsides,
I wish I always hear your voice and feel your laugh within,
remember what an unbelievable journey this has been,
I wish you never question all the joy you put us through,
pride we'll always carry for the honor having known you,
I wish you find your kingdom where you remain in royalty,
we stay behind to pass along your lasting legacy,
I wish your soul to make it home where ever that may be,
you're safe and cherished for all eternity.
Copyright ©2005 Mimi Mathes
PITTSFIELD -- A community gathered to say goodbye a final time to a young man. More than 350 of Anthony
Colucci's friends and family members crowded into St. Teresa's Church on South Street to pay their last respects to the 20-year-old.
During his eulogy, the Rev. Anthony Cullen offered solace to his tear-soaked audience grieving over a life cut short.
"Why? Why somebody so young?" Cullen said. "We will ask that question for the rest of our lives, and we will never
get an answer. ... But Anthony did not die alone, because in a millionth of a second, in that moment of death, God is there."
Those attending the funeral, however, knew Colucci simply as Tony, who, at age 8, took apart his bicycle just so
he could put it back together again.
"From the day he was brought home, Tony became my best friend," his sister Emily
said, addressing the packed pews during a speech that alternatively elicited laughs and sobs from the crowd. "He didn't have
a choice. I was older and taller." To his sister, Colucci was the sibling who loved fishing but could never bring himself
to take the hook out of the fish's mouth. He was also the kid brother -- a rabid fan of the Manchester United soccer club
-- whom she razzed about bowling -- that is until he bowled a perfect game. "Whatever Tony did, he did with pride," she said.
Colucci, who did masonry work for a local construction company at the time of his disappearance, had been planning
on attending the New England Institute of Technology in Rhode Island to study cabinetmaking.
On behalf of her brother,
Emily-Ann Colucci made a promise to those who knew and loved Anthony: that he would always be with them in spirit. "Whenever
you may need him, he will always be there," she said.
|Flowers loved ones left @ the October Mt. site
remember when I first met Tony, he was a fifteen year old kid with a sarcastic sense of humor and a love of practical jokes.
Many nights he came to the store with Jay to get his "fix," a 20 ounce bottle of coke .
have $1." This was the response I got for years, lol. "Yeah right. Don't worry about it, get me next time." I never
did see any of those dimes.
He became a fast regular and was always a joy to have around
when the nights were quiet and my shift was dragging along to a turtle's pace. We shared ideas, opinions on many issues, he
spoke of his family and always asked my advice on the girls he liked. I never had a problem with him and he could always make
me laugh. Somewhere along the way, we became friends.
I have loads of silly memories that
always seem to make me smile. Those little things that mean absolutely nothing to everyone else, but to me they are cherished.
For example, the time we were fooling around at work and knocked over the entire display. He always blamed me for that. "You
wuss!" Or the many times when Tony went to lunch with me and Brian, "Corn has no nutritional value." Damn, could that boy
eat! lol. I swear his legs were hollow. Then there's the times we ate at GB. "If you saw the MSPCA truck outside, would you
still eat here?"
"I would, it would be fresh." LOL!!
When I pass his street,
I still find myself calling him, "Tooooooooonnnnyyyyyyyyy." It's funny, I can still hear him answering me, "Mimi - ko - bleemie."
I pray I always do. I remember how he always had to get the last word, or should I say, last poke. "Tony, if you poke
me one more time I swear I'm gonna hurt you." As if he'd start taking me seriously NOW, lol. Or when his mom called him at
work, "Hey off spring, it's your Mom." I understand it's probably natural from having a Welsh Mom, but for crying out loud
Tony, you're in America... it's a flippin DIRECTIONAL!! LOL!! And we have rotaries, not round abouts, lol. I always
ragged on him for that. How did he reply? By poking me of course.
Let's not forget the times
we drove an hour to Crossgates Mall just to play one arcade game. I remember one day I brought him out to Midas to get something
out of his truck. He had nothing to do so decided he'd go walk the Ashuwillticook Trail with me. We walked from the Berkshire
mall almost up to Cheshire. We were chatting and laughing and before we knew it, it was getting dark, FAST. We still had at
least a 45 minute walk back. By the time we were half way there, it was black out and we were the only ones there. "Stay away
from the geese." He told me. "Tony! How the hell am I supposed to do that, you idiot! I can't see anything! I'll probably
walk right off into the lake, lol." We were laughing hysterically. I called Mom to let her know where we were and then used
my cell phone light to try to see where we were heading. We laughed about how we might get lost on this trail in the dark
and no one would ever find us. I still find it funny as I picture the experience, but after what's happened, it also feels
Tony was a great guy, a beautiful person, a forever child at heart and someone I feel
honored to have called my friend. He made my life better, gave me things to laugh about when I felt I couldn't smile and I
know he's making his mark where ever he may be right now. I'll forever love him, respect him and stand up for him.
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"The Anthony Colucci Fund"
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Pittsfield, MA 01201
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